No 20,lorong Au 2A/6,
Taman Sri Keramat,
54200 Selangor
9 September 2010.
Dear my friend,
I hope you are in a good condition right now.I have received your letter yesterday that you wrote all your sufferness and secret.Firstly,I appreciate that you want to share your story with me,and trust on me. Family problems makes you be like this.You always think that no anyone love you, accept you in all condition and undestand you.Thats why you feels alone,empty and takes decision to suicide, but have you ever thinks that Allah have always with you?.Allah will always with us,whenever you go and do something, He always see all our movement.I know you will thinks and feels that all people easy to give their motivational words to you because they do not have same boat with you.Yes, I admit that 'things are easier said than done',but I hope you can open your heart to accept and listen to my suggestion and motivation words.
You feel so lost
That your so alone
All you is see is night
And darkness all around
You feel so helpless
You can’t see which way to go
Don’t despair and never loose hope
Cause Allah is always by your side
Insha Allah x3
Insya Allah you’ll find your way
Everytime you commit one more mistake
You feel you can’t repent
And that its way too late
Your’re so confused, wrong decisions you have made
Haunt your mind and your heart is full of shame
Cause Allah is always by your side
Insha Allah x3
Insya Allah you’ll find your way
Insha Allah x3
Insya Allah you’ll find your way
Turn to Allah
He’s never far away
Put your trust in Him
Raise your hands and pray
OOO Ya Allah
Guide my steps don’t let me go astray
You’re the only one that showed me the way,
Showed me the way x2
Insyaallah x3
Insya Allah we’ll find the way
From this lyrics,you can get a few motivational words, and changed your decision to a better one. Everyone has a problem and we must face it,because Allah will not burden anyone with their limit of strength. For me,you must always thinks good in every qada' that Allah has stated on us.If every moment that your parents ignore about you,do not feels regret,because you have Allah and you try to makes your life happy also never hates your parents.Remember,if Allah not created our parents,we will not be here to feels like human. You should always ask yourself,'what should I do after this to rebuild my family bond?',because it is can help you a lot in future.Just imagine,if you falling in love with someone,every each moment you struggle all out to grap his heart and want to know him well.So, same like in your condition right now.
You know that you have a family problem,and do not ever you have a gapped with your family.Supposely,you must try hardly to solve this problem and takes action on it.Firstly,you must have a good conversation with them.You can spend your time eating together and share a lot of story and jokes.Besides, you must speak out to your father about your dream that you want to perform solat together,in the same time you can gathered your family members.Next, you try to get your parents favourite in all aspect.For example, you know that your father likes itallian food,so you try to cook for your father.It's help to makes your relation between you and your father becomes more closer.Let his own daughter cook for him,before other people try to get his heart.
You must be responsible on this family problem,do not think if your mother ignored this problem, and you will take the same action.That is totally wrong and you must always takes action on it.You wrote in this letter that your parents always feels ashamed because they have children like you.Do not feels down but you must change your character and makes your weakness to be your strengthness.I know it is the hard way for you to change but if you looks this with positive way,InsyaALLAH you can be the better person.Do not worry about it is success or not but the point is you try to save your family from getting worst condition.After you try very patiently,you just let Allah settle this problem(tawakkal).Additionally,you should have a strong and excellent mind-set,because if you not telling your mind that you want to change,it will occured on you.
On the other hands,if you choose to suicide,you must know that in Islam who are suicided themself,he will not called as Muslim.So,you must thinks about it twice.Then,if your heart still not feels calm,quickly you perform your pray.How to have a best perform in solat,that can makes people feel very calm and happy?.In this case that have related in our soul,heart and mind.Hence,we must do the best in front of Allah,so that Allah will bless us.We must have a highly concentration in solat and understand every words that we say in solat.Then,you will get a happy ang calm-hearted.In Islam has highlight about 'Allah will not change people's fate,but people's have power to change their own fate by do the best in every work that they did.Now,only you can change your future either in education, work and so on.Imagine this condition that have related with your problems,"Everyday you feels suffered,crazy,alone,empty and so on.Then,you take decision to kill yourself".Now,asked yourself,"What will happened to my future?.Do this family problem's solved?,and do my suiciding make they feel sad or happy?".Every step that we wnt it to be,wemust thinks first the effect on ourself and our future.
Today you are still alive.You should feels very grateful to Allah that He gives you chances to have a big changes in your life.You have a second chances to have a happy family, a success future, a high salary and many more by doing all of this.Always thinks and asked ourself,'why Allah created humans?'.This is because Allah wants people's obey to every each his commands.I hope that you can go through your life happily and harmony,also you must always be strong.
Problems
make people feel fear to face it
make people feel boring to face it
make people be a coward person
make people feel down in life
make people feel ungrateful in life
make people blame to god
make people be fool.
Success
not everyone can have it
not everyone struggle to get it
only a certain people can achieved this
people that always be tough
people that never feel fed up
people that never stop believing in god
people that always istiqamah in every work
people that always feel grateful to Allah.
Everyone will have desire to get marride and InsyaALLAH,you will be a good mother to all your children. Do not repeat the same thing to on your children.Whatever it is you must thinks about future.If you cannot bear it anymore try to find people that can leads you to do a good deeds and can console yourself. Then,try to have a soft-talk with your parents to leads them be a good role model and try to attracted them to think about Allah and their responsibility.Lastly, do not stop believing on everything that you believe you can achieved.
Everyday
Thinks about life
Every moment
Thinks about Allah
Everywhere
Thinks about future
Every minute
Thinks about changes of attitude
May Allah bless...
On the other hands,if you choose to suicide,you must know that in Islam who are suicided themself,he will not called as Muslim.So,you must thinks about it twice.Then,if your heart still not feels calm,quickly you perform your pray.How to have a best perform in solat,that can makes people feel very calm and happy?.In this case that have related in our soul,heart and mind.Hence,we must do the best in front of Allah,so that Allah will bless us.We must have a highly concentration in solat and understand every words that we say in solat.Then,you will get a happy ang calm-hearted.In Islam has highlight about 'Allah will not change people's fate,but people's have power to change their own fate by do the best in every work that they did.Now,only you can change your future either in education, work and so on.Imagine this condition that have related with your problems,"Everyday you feels suffered,crazy,alone,empty and so on.Then,you take decision to kill yourself".Now,asked yourself,"What will happened to my future?.Do this family problem's solved?,and do my suiciding make they feel sad or happy?".Every step that we wnt it to be,wemust thinks first the effect on ourself and our future.
Today you are still alive.You should feels very grateful to Allah that He gives you chances to have a big changes in your life.You have a second chances to have a happy family, a success future, a high salary and many more by doing all of this.Always thinks and asked ourself,'why Allah created humans?'.This is because Allah wants people's obey to every each his commands.I hope that you can go through your life happily and harmony,also you must always be strong.
Problems
make people feel fear to face it
make people feel boring to face it
make people be a coward person
make people feel down in life
make people feel ungrateful in life
make people blame to god
make people be fool.
Success
not everyone can have it
not everyone struggle to get it
only a certain people can achieved this
people that always be tough
people that never feel fed up
people that never stop believing in god
people that always istiqamah in every work
people that always feel grateful to Allah.
Everyone will have desire to get marride and InsyaALLAH,you will be a good mother to all your children. Do not repeat the same thing to on your children.Whatever it is you must thinks about future.If you cannot bear it anymore try to find people that can leads you to do a good deeds and can console yourself. Then,try to have a soft-talk with your parents to leads them be a good role model and try to attracted them to think about Allah and their responsibility.Lastly, do not stop believing on everything that you believe you can achieved.
Everyday
Thinks about life
Every moment
Thinks about Allah
Everywhere
Thinks about future
Every minute
Thinks about changes of attitude
May Allah bless...
your sincerely,
Lina
(Salina binti Salim)
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